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Strategies to help co-parents successfully raise their children

Virginia couples who have gone through a divorce may be interested in learning some strategies to help them co-parent successfully. This will help them as they are processing their own pain and as they try to make decisions that are in the best interests of the children.

Some of the things that led to the divorce may make it difficult for co-parents to communicate with each other in a respectful and peaceful way. This may cause them to try to use the children as messengers. This usually leads to messages not being relayed correctly and can harm the children. Co-parenting classes or family therapy may be able to help co-parents work on their communication skills. Also, using text messages or email does not require face-to-face communication and can provide documentation.

Staying unified is an essential part of successfully co-parenting, even when it is difficult. The goal is to keep things as consistent for the children as possible, which means that the co-parents need to work together to decide on family rules, discipline methods and daily schedules. This unity helps the children feel safe and cuts down on stress.

After going through a divorce, co-parents usually need to follow a parenting schedule that has been ordered by the court. Sticking with this plan as closely as possible will benefit the children. However, there are times when it is good for a co-parent to be flexible, especially if it will benefit the children.

Some co-parents consistently change schedules and make decisions that are not in the best interests of the children. A parent who is concerned about their current child custody order or parenting schedule may want to talk with an attorney. The attorney may answer questions about child custody modification, visitation rights and other legal matters that relate to family and co-parenting.

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